What are the differences? [She doesn't get it...]

So I am supposed to do nice things to his human sack? But why does he have to be asleep for it? What is the difference! What if he is awake but relaxed?

You have to completely explain everything! You can't just say a few things and assume that everyone will get it. As someone who thrives on detail and explanation, you have to tell me everything. You're really bad at this explaining things!